Navigating Crowds at Concerts: Dealing with Discomfort in Mass Gatherings
Dropping into a state of discomfort or anxiety amidst the energy of a concert or festival? It's happenings, my friend. Those particularly sensitive folk among us might recognize this all-too-familiar sensation when we suddenly feel out-of-sorts, flustered, or plain overwhelmed in a crowd - even if it's a fascinating spectacle. So, what's the deal? And what can we do about it?
Psychologist Gabriele Bringer's got some low-down on this subject in an enlightening chat. She pinpoints why it's crucial not to suppress these challenging emotions and provides knack-bending suggestions for maintaining our cool under pressure.
Why the Sensation of Suffocation Hits Us
Bringer explains that when we immerse ourselves in super-sized events and sprawling festivals, our senses are constantly inundated with sounds, colors, and smells. And while we may revel in the ambiance, there's always a hidden side-effect - the anxiety-inducing aspect of being sandwiched in tight quarters, even if it all feels cozy and enjoyable.
Different folks react to stress in various ways. A lucky few may find it easy to switch off, while others may succumb to sensory overload. This could result in feelings of suffocation, even when the crowd isn't really that thick. Sometimes, it's just the idea of being surrounded by scores of people that causes such a response.
Now, here's a fun fact: some of us might not realize just how profoundly the presence of numerous people affects us until we're smack-dab in the middle of it. It also bears mentioning that your physical state quality plays a part in how you respond to stress. If we're already drained from a week of 100% effort, our reactions to stressful situations may be more acute than when we're well-rested and balanced.
What to Do if We Feel Overwhelmed in the Crowd
Bringer emphasizes that when we're sweating, breathing faster, or experiencing a faster heart rate, we should respond to these first warning signs. If the sensation of suffocation escalates, it can easily blossom into a full-blown panic attack, leaving us struggling to think clearly.
The key? Remain composed, gather your wits about you, and then make a decision. Do I want to exit the throng? And if so, which way should I go?
Relaxation techniques vary from person to person. For example, deep, intentional breathing can help. Taking a sip of water can do the trick, too, if you've got it handy. Another technique is to focus on a single person (say, your pal you're with), instead of fixating on the myriad of folks crowding around you.
Alternatively, you can engage in a bit of rationalization by acknowledging the situation. For instance, you can think to yourself, "I'm at the festival, I'm standing on the field, I'm feeling it's becoming too muggy with people." Even just thinking these words can help.
You might find these techniques profoundly helpful. With them, you maintain a clear head and can then consider whether to stay put, as perhaps it was just a minor episode, or to take a breather outside for a spell. If exiting the crowd feels like a personal plunge, you can always decide to hang on - or simply position yourself near the edge.
Crowd Anxiety: Managing Overstimulation
Bringer shares some top-tier strategy tips for keeping your cool when you start feeling like a sponge that's been soaked too many times. Her first recommendation is to make a pecking order list, identifying the folks and activities you truly want to experience. Then, when you're knee-deep in the excitement of the event, you can refer to this list and make deliberate choices about your time.
When your brain flashes 'No More,' it's time to cut back on stimuli. So, get out of the crowd, away from the din. At times, just hanging out in the restroom for a bit longer, as long as it's not right next to the speaker, can help. Some people also find that tuning in to their favorite tunes on headphones, disregarding the sounds, but embracing the visuals, offers relief. Or, one can simply close their eyes and engage with the noise scape.
In short, by understanding the core causes of feelings of suffocation and employing effective coping strategies, you'll be better equipped to revel in the joy of concerts and festivals without the accompanying angst.
- Psychologist Gabriele Bringer suggests that feeling overwhelmed in crowded spaces might be due to the constant bombardment of our senses by sounds, colors, and smells, combined with the anxiety-inducing aspect of being in close proximity to many people, even if it seems enjoyable.
- When experiencing feelings of suffocation in a crowd, Bringer advises responding to the first warning signs, such as quickened breathing or an elevated heart rate, by remaining composed, using relaxation techniques like intentional breathing or focusing on a single person, or engaging in rationalization by acknowledging the situation to help maintain a clear head and make an informed decision about staying or exiting the crowd.