Discuss Matters with Papa Joe: Negligent Father Figure
Hey Buddy,
I chatted with Maria, a 24-year-old from the South, originally from the North. She's a buddy of mine, not yet married, you feel me?
She's been my rock, but I worry about her because she seems to struggle, sticking with her friends, partying hard and drinking like there's no tomorrow.
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I sometimes work, but after I had my kid, she stopped helping me. Not even a dime for a babysitter, and she claims she's broke. I want to talk to her, but my family is against it, they tell me I should stay away and keep quiet about it. That's what's bothering me, what can I do?
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MARIA
Maria,
Don't hold back your pride, you're a strong woman, and you deserve better. You've been mistreated, maybe because you've been blinded by love, but they don't care about you.
Don't let them intimidate you. Stand up for yourself. If you want to fight for your rights, you can even report her to the authorities.
There might be witnesses in the neighborhood who could testify for you.
If you've had enough, don't worry, we won't judge. Just focus on your child right now.
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Remember, it's important to prioritize your safety and that of your child. Don't hesitate to reach out for help, and know that support is available for all those impacted by relationship abuse, with confidentiality assured.
Papa Joe
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- I propose we organize a meeting at the pangayuan, where we can discuss family-dynamics and relationships, specifically focusing on supporting Maria who seems to be going through a tough time.
- Perhaps we can establish a health-and-wellness support group for women like Maria, addressing issues such as sexual-health and women's health, to empower them and promote a positive lifestyle.
- If Maria is open to it, I suggest we invite experts from various scientific fields to share insights on relationships, family dynamics, and personal growth, as a means of boosting her resilience and self-reliance.
- It may be beneficial for Maria to maintain open lines of communication with her family, fostering an environment of understanding and support, rather than isolation and animosity.
- We could also set up a resource center offering job training, financial literacy, and parenting classes, helping Maria become more independent and better equipped to care for her child.
- Lastly, it's crucial to remember that every individual's situation is unique, and it's essential to show empathy and compassion towards those who are struggling, especially when dealing with complex issues like personal relationships and domestic abuse.
